The bell rings twice, so I know it’s James.
He knows I’m asleep — he gets up at the crack of dawn — it’s before 10 a.m., so I know he needs my help. Could be his weedeater’s bolt is loose again, and he’s got to do Jeff’s yard. Or, he’s found a critter in need. Or he’s found a student’s flute on the DART bus and needs me to help find the owner.

James Rochelle, Christmas 2007, with a surprise gift left for him by Danny and Shelli, former Hollywood-Santa Monica residents who left him the present of lawn-care equipment — tools of his trade — before moving away.
Or, his hip feels better after months of relentless pain, and he wants me to know the cancerous tumor, that none of us knew existed, relented that day.
No, I’m talking about the time a few years ago … he’s found a lady’s purse sitting on a Casa Linda-area curb. Although he has many talents — friendliness and morality topmost among them — reading’s not in his toolbox.
He wants me to examine the purse’s contents so we can contact its surely upset owner. I find a number and make the call to a grateful lady. While we wait for the lady, talking on my front porch, he wonders if she’ll give him a reward.
She and her husband come straightaway to claim it. The purse is short $20. I assure her that whoever nabbed it took the money, but I know James did not. He wouldn’t do anything like that.
They thank James by treating him to breakfast at the old Lakewood Café Brazil.
He’s been rewarded many times.
About 10 or 15 years ago, I remember the pride on his face as we sat on my porch and he told me his chicken-fried steak recipe that he cooked for the elderly Hollywood lady who asked him to stay with her.
For nearly a year he lived with her — a big segue from mowing her yard and doing odd jobs. They loved each other, and he was heartbroken when her family, finally, showed up to visit her one day and found James living there.
They packed her up and sent her to an old folks’ home in Oklahoma. They wouldn’t even let him know how to contact her. Not before she gave him her car, though.
We sat on my porch way back then, and I taught him what was in the Texas Driver Handbook, so he could get his license.
Some years later, after that pretty black car called it a day, another of his retinue of customer-friends gave him a Taurus. He kept his lawnmower and rake in the trunk.
About once a month, someone new to the Hollywood-Santa Moncia neighborhood would call the police to say they just saw a black guy with a lawnmower in his trunk. To help him in those situations, he carried with him, in addition to every receipt he had and every form of ID, a letter I wrote that started: “To Whom It May Concern: I have known James Rochelle for more than 20 years, and know him to be an honest and hard-working man who carries in his car the tools of his business …”
His car was stolen along with all of his possessions, ID, and my letter.
When his mother died, not long after mine did, we hugged each other real tight on my front porch and we cried.
I wish I could hug him now, but James Rochelle, a very good human, 46 years old, died July 4 at 12:03 a.m.
I miss him very much. I wish I could tell about all of the things we spoke of over these almost 30 years, of the advice he gave, of his honest critique of the world and of racism, and of the many things we did for each other.
I will always miss my James.
His funeral is Friday, July 10, at 11 a.m. at the Sandra Clark Funeral Home. The wake for James will be this Thursday from 7-8 p.m. at the same site.
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The Twig said at 12:03 p.m. on July 8, 2009, 12:03 p.m.
Thank you for this! James is already so very missed. It's so nice to see so many people coming out to honor him. He ALWAYS had a big smile for everyone despite his many challenges. A lesson for us all!
Will Silverthorn said at 10:16 p.m. on July 8, 2009, 10:16 p.m.
James was a very kind person. He was always asking me if we needed any extra help around the house. We will miss seeing his great attitude around the neighborhood.. The world could use a lot more nice people like James.
Science Lady said at 12:46 a.m. on July 9, 2009, 12:46 a.m.
Thank you Suzie for this wonderful inspirational story about James. He certainly was a gift to all of us in this neighborhood. When I had major surgery one year/half ago he offered to come in and wash my dishes! He never ceased to amaze me with his kindness. If you can, please add this to our newsletter.
Darlene Parker
Science Lady said at 12:47 a.m. on July 9, 2009, 12:47 a.m.
Susan,
I was just thinking about James this evening and wondering how he was doing. What sad news...though I am glad he is no longer in pain.
I will call the funeral home in the morning and make a donation and I will try to get by to the wake and/or the service.
It is going to be very weird not to see James. We will definitely miss him.
Thanks again for sharing this information. Have a good night.
Allie
Science Lady said at 12:49 a.m. on July 9, 2009, 12:49 a.m.
Susan,
I'm so sad .... I didn't know James as well as you all did, however Jeff, Julia and Jordan did. He was so innocent and sweet. And you are so on about how honest and naive he was. I also didn't realize how many others knew and appreciated him. I'm so glad.
Winnie
Science Lady said at 12:52 a.m. on July 9, 2009, 12:52 a.m.
Susan,
I’m so sorry to hear that. I’m glad he’s not suffering. Hopefully he’ll come back as a bird who can fly.
I’m sorry he’s gone.
Nancy
Babs said at 10:12 a.m. on July 9, 2009, 10:12 a.m.
I am very sad to learn of James' illness and passing. He was always so pleasant and greeted me with a big, "Hi, Miss Barbara". Many times he would stop by just to chat and see if I had work for him. He used to cut my lawn about 5 years ago. He was a gentle, honest, hardworking man and he will definitely be missed. My sympathies go to his family and friends. At least now he won't have to work so hard and his life will be much happier.
mellenw said at 12:49 p.m. on July 9, 2009, 12:49 p.m.
Sad news indeed. I hope I am remembered as fondly as James when my time comes.
Mellen
divinediva83 said at 2:05 a.m. on August 1, 2009, 2:05 a.m.
I am James's great neice...I really appreciate the way you all have admired him as a good friend as well as a great worker..he was very dear to our family and not a day goes by that we don't think of our uncle fat...He was truly loved by family and friends and will be truly missed and never forgotten..Thank you all so much..